I would wish to persuade you that it is unethical, at worst, or un-discerning, at best, to take someone's testimony about themselves as true. Come take the Ethics class to learn more.
John 5:31 "If I testify about myself, my testimony is not true."
Joseph Ray taught Philosophy, Bible, and Ethics for six years. He earned a MDiV from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. He has been married for seven years.